so I absolutely can't stand my fiance, we've been together for 2 years we have a child and I don't know why but I just flat out can't stand him. he treats me OK, he loves our kid, I hate him tho. I hate when he tries to kiss me, touch me or even talk to me.. but I love him and want to be with him. any time I even look at him I instantly am irritated, when he tries to talk to me I am a bitch I can't help it he just truly annoys me. I don't understand these feelings becuase I love him I really do but I just can't stand him. wtf do I do iv been thinking constantly for the last year about leaving him but iv tried and I can't for some reason. I don't know what the hell to do.
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omg I was going through the same exact thing with my boyfriend...i could not stand him and everything he did just really annoyed me.i didn't want sex from him and sometimes I didn't want him to even touch me..but then on the other hand I loved him so much and could not stand the thought of leaving him...and this is the classic case of falling out of love..i loved him but was not in love with him ,there was no spark and no romance(I always thought the was a bunch of bull when people said that too me but after it happened to me I know that it can really happen)...he was more like a great roomate and best friend...well I just decided after 6 months or so of having those feelings that I need to talk to him,he didn't not feel the same way in his mind everything was going great but I convinced him to go to theraphy to save the relationship...but anyways it worked for us and now our relationship is better then ever..and to be honest if you and your man have a child together and you really do love him I think you two could safe your relationship,you just need to work together and not be embaressed to talk about anything!0