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Having done this, I'd advise against it if at all possible. It's too uncomfortable and awkward.
That's the best way of fucking each others feelings and make each other suffer…, when you break in "good terms" it means one of three things… you both still love each other, you two never did, or one still in love and the other never cared…
Ok or he felt nothing for me and couldn't understand why he wanted to be with me. He just was comfortable and knew he wanted things to stay the same. Wasted years of my life. So I got over my feelings. He just has his ego to get over. We're still friends.
Nope, the way you are saying it you both seem to still have feelings for each other, I guess is a difference on the goals… eg one of you wanna get marry and the other don't or something like that. Don't know…
I want love, moments of passion, and romance in my life. He couldn't give that to me. He was comfortable with me and could see marriage/a future with me. I figured he wasn't serious because he didn't treat me like he even cared if I was there or not and I don't want a future with one who treats me like a ghost. I care about him but for the most part I've moved on and after 3 months he seems to be fine. We loved in the moment but I guess we didn't love enough. I wonder it that's a feeling fuck. Cool.
See, you both never stopped having feelings for each other simply the way of living the relation and wanted to share it was different, that's what a marriage is about… solving those kind of situations making agreements to work together for a common welfare, not all is one is right and the other is wrong a lot of times, most of them both are right simply the perspective is different, and I just recently learned that is much better to be in peace than to be right
So based on that… living together is gonna hurt you both, at least the goal for both would be to get back together and work those things out
I'm fine. He'll be fine.
For the good of you both I hope so… unfortunately I doubt it,
Lmao okay it's so nice to hear how full of assumptions some people are as if every relationship is cookie cutter. I'm still good friends with him. And I have a very open and honest policy and I'm incredibly good at reading people and knowing their intentions. I'm positive he isn't interested in me on any deep level. Around break up time, he even admitted he's the kind of guy who just needs to be in relationships but he doesn't understand why. He probably can care less who he's in it with as long as they are attractive and fun. I have reunited with an old flame so if I'm harboring deep feelings for anyone it's no longer him. His treatment of me during the last year of our relationship allowed me to move on before I broke up. I just kept giving it chances until there was no patience or loving feeling in me. He's a good guy despite his inability to be good at relationships.
Again, I hope so,
Am I leeching off them, or are they leeching off me?
Good terms. Splitting evenly.
Good terms is me leeching off them
Simply no. Over is over, and past is past.
LIVE with? No
I don't think I can
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