I’ve known this guy for a little over 3 months and have been dating for almost two months. I do like him but my feelings aren’t growing and I’m a little thrown off by the fact he’s already said I love you 2 times. And is talking about months from now with me in it. I feel as tho I was thought I was ready for a relationship but now that I’m in one with him I just don’t think I’m ready for one. Esp after he’s told me that he’s been arrested for possession. He’s has now stated that he’s on probation and now he’s talking about that when he’s off he wants to go back to drinking and smoking and all this stuff... I’m not one for drugs and drinking. And I just don’t feel connection it’s like we jumped into this he knows nothing about me except my birthday and I know nothing about him. So I guess Ky question is how do I break up with him but let him down gently so I don’t hurt him?