My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me a month ago, I am moving out this weekend. Hs blindsided me one day and told me he didn't love me anymore. I truly believe he is wrong, I believe he loves me but I think he is just confused. Our relationship just got boring over the winter and instead of him coming to me about the issue he just processed his thoughts in his own confused head and came to the conclusion that we needed to break up. I tried to talk to him but he won't listen. And of course I have since learned that hs is seeing someone he works with. I'm literally sick over all of this and I want him and our relationship back. What can I do?