We broke up Sunday but Monday he told me over the phone the “long distance” (40 miles) was to hard and just wasn’t working. We did only see each other twice a month:/ however we talked or messaged each other everyday. I thought we made it work, when we talked over the phone he told me he still liked me and that was the only part of the conversation where he didn’t closed off. After saying bye when he said it just wouldn’t work he told me told me he was really stressed and his job shut down and that he was probably go to grad school. He never said sorry or anything and I’ve crying everyday because i can’t see him ever being that cold to me. Should I message him not with the intent of getting back but to ask if he had anything more to say about what happened that made him say he wish he was with me Just the night before he chose to end it with me?