Im usually pretty good when it comes to dealing with girls, but this one is as confusing as hell.
Basically I started talking to a girl a few months ago we met up a few times and it went great. Got along nicely and we where talking like everyday always asking each when we where gonna see each other etc.
Now I purposely held back with this girl because I knew she was at uni and things would become difficult. So the week before she was going to uni I said to her let me know when your free this week and we'll go out she's like great great. So all that week she went quiet and I didn't hear anything from her.
So I thought okay deleted her number and removed her from my facebook...Im not really the type into playing games, chasing. She didn’t speak to me for a week which was the first time since we’d known each other, which says she knew what she was doing.
A week or so later she asks me why I deleted her off facebook and she was txting me for about 3 weeks. To which I never responded to any of. About 2 weeks later I crack, we talk and I tell her why I fell out with her. She apologies over and over again and says she honestly cannot remember about me proposing to meet before uni.
Anyway we become friends again we're talking and we're txting regularly having a laugh like old times. On a Friday me and my friend where meant to come down to see her and her friend (at uni). Maybe 3/4 days before the event while I was talking about coming to see her she bails out saying she going out with her girls she never realized it was Halloween (as we arranged it about 3 weeks before). I said its fine we'll re-arrange for another time, she said definitely..it never happened
Now its been maybe 2/3 months since we meet up last properly. Yet she's still constantly talking to me and if she doesn’t hear from me in a few days she immediately suspects somethings wrong. Now this girl is at a university which isn't too far from where I live and she comes back home on a few weekends and her home is very close to me. My main problem is she never even points to saying we should meet up or even bring it up. Her friends are ALWAYS going down to see her and she comes back home she never mentions anything.
Now I'm not looking for a relationship and neither is she, and if she completely stopped talking to me then it would make sense and I would cease to stop talking to her also. But she hasn’t stopped talking to me or anything. End of the day I’m not here to be this girls pen pal, but if she hasn’t got time for me she should just say. If she's found another dude she's falling her or doesn’t like me in that way she should say. My problem is I can’t bring this upto her AGAIN as I'm going to look like abit of a bitch
“ you never see me anymore”..” you never make time for me “ it would be like the same reasons as to why I got rid of her the first time. Furthermore I'm not going to ask this girl out or to meet up as she's bailed on me twice already and a third time ..euurgh
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Sorry but I don't think that she is interested in you.Obviously she enjoys talking to you as a friend but umm I can't discern anything more than that according to what you mentioned.
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