My ex and I broke up because he away at college in TX and the distance put a strain on the relationship. He told me "it's not fair" to me and that he wants me to be with someone that can spend time with me and what not. He was supposedly super busy and we would go DAYS without talking and it really hurt me. I'd get a little jealous of his friends getting to see him everyday , especially his female friends. Would you tell your girlfriend that because you meant that or is it an easy way out? Like an easy let down?
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You know him the best - so without the benefit of the doubt, what do you think? There are guys that will do anything to make sure the girl they like is as happy as possible (me and a few of my friends) - but then there are the players. This is more of your judgement then anything, we have no idea on his personality, his ethics, how he looks, the special things he has done for you - if you are really worried, try to talk to one of his guy friends (if he has any down there that you know) and ask them what's up. In my opinion (Note: all I have is an opinion with no support, so don't put that much water in it) I would say he is probably trying a soft let down just because if I had a girlfriend I would talk to her everyday unless I knew she was going to be busy with something - and even then I would try to see how it was going and if I could help in any way. If you want to provide more info I can help more, otherwise good luck to you!0
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