My girlfriend of 3 and half months who I really liked and we had something very special dumped me yesterday. She said she met another guy about 12 days ago and has been hanging with him a lot. She said that they have made out and he is very serious about her. And she told me she wants to give it a try with him. She was not cold or brutal about it. She said she still has very strong feelings for me and realizes there is something special between us but she wants to try and see if there is anything concrete with this other guy because she likes him too. She is generally an indecisive person. And a little bit of a commitment phobe. What should I do. I still love her and want her back! Please help. Thank you.
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The fact that you are still talking to her after she dumped you for another guy makes you look stupid. If there was something special between you and her then she would have never considered being with someone else to bone in the first place. Since she knows that you are sprung on her and won't move on, she is using every possible advantage that she can to have you in her life whenever and however she wants. You should never talk to her again and cut off communication. She has already "made out" (had sex in other words) with another guy and willing to "try" a relationship with him, and while that is happening she wants you to be there for her so you can have a front row seat. Secretly she is laughing her ass off while having her cake and eating it too because you "love" her. You should never put love above common sense and logic. Ignore her and start dating other girls. Don't wait for her, don't chase her, and for God sakes DON'T BE FRIENDS WITH HER! Trust me when I say she is getting her kicks out of this, especially by knowing that you will be there for her. You are being too nice and she is taking advantage of you. Move on.0
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