I'm in 10th grade, this guy I like is a senior. He and I see each other everyday (and almost every Saturday we hang out) he and I text each other all day, every day. About 3 weeks ago I threw my best friend a party, and there was drinking involved. Me and the guy I like were supposed to make out and stuff, and I was a little drunk(he was sober) and excited. He came over sat down and we flirted and stuff but nothing happened, right before he leaned in his brother came in and handed him the phone, cause it was his mom. He left, then came back in 3 minutes later and his friend had came up to me, drunk also, and also a senior, and we started making out. I refused to do anything else though. At the end of the night drunk friend left, and guy I like looked at me and gave me a hug, he seemed fine. When he left he told me to text him when I was sober. We texted each other for the rest of the night, then he texted me again at 7am and we continued till 11pm..Since then we've acted normal in school. Last Wednesday he and his friend came and picked up me and my friend to hang out. That night his friend tried making out with me again and again..It never lasted long cause I don't like the guy. And the guy I like kept looking and looking not happy. That night we got dropped off and the guy I like texted me again till the night was over. We hung out again 2 days ago on my birthday and his friend trays to kiss me again and I really didn't..Like, lips would touch for about.9 seconds and then id pull away. The night went fine, and me and the guy I like would just tease each other like we would any other day, but he hasn't texted me since then...Have I lost my chance? Or is he just a little jealous? And if so, how do I get this kid to realize that I'm not kissing his friend, cause I like him!
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I don't know. It sounds like you want to eat the cake and have it too. I agree with all of the other posters. I don't know how kissing another guy, gives the impression that you don't like the guy you're kissing, but his friend instead... and after a couple of times as well... it's a classic case of mixed signals, really mixed ones at that!
To be honest, I think he's putting on an act, to show you that he's not hurt by it all, or he's trying to show that he's not possessive or the jealous type. But it could all just be an act; the joking around, teasing, texting etc. He could be really cut. I know I would be, and I would probably put on the act too. Sometimes, being jealous will push the one's you love away further than they already are. But other times, not being jealous enough, will push the one's you love away further than they already are.
But like you said, in a comment, if you like him, and he likes you... what's the issue? Can't we all be adults about it, and just put it out there. Why do feelings always have to be pent up, for someone to make the leap? By the sounds of it, it should be much of a leap anyhow...0