Should I try and move on from my ex wife?
What Girls Said 1
i was in the same boat... its been a long time.
I told him (my ex. husband) to leave me along for a year... but he pressured me to go to court... its over now...6 years. later.
I didn't started dating till more than a yr. after our separateion...
you need time to move on.
i move on phyically, but at the end nothghing is more important than my fmaily...
our kids are in much better place now because of me... i could have been the resentful, bitter ex. wife. i am not. i supported him and help him to work with me to raise kids in 2 separate homes...
you are hurt now and iwll for a long time... make sure you be the better man/father to help with the boys, be there for them thats the best you can do at this point.
you will heal, give yourself time.
he is dating the 3rd woman. this one i like.. similar value in money, eduactoin, health... etc...
i am also dating, second boyfriend... also similar value...
so to me, these are more important than trying to fix a marriage that he doeesn't want.
i will never forgive him for breaking up the family and the maaiage... but i am learning to focuse on co partning and share a property together...
we were like best friends and still talk like one in very very good terms... someimes still talk silly...
do i like this dynamic of these bf/gf situations? no... but i have no choice...0
What Guys Said 3
No matter how much you love her and want her, if she doesn't want you. . . there is never going to be a relationship. Move forward.
Breaking up: you may want to die. . . but you won't, so do yourself a favor and deal with it! ↗0
Maybe it’s not meant to be? I’ve never been married and honestly don’t plan on it, but I know many marriages just don’t work out. I guess that’s just life. Maybe just focus on you and your kids for a bit, be the best dad you can be, and the right women will come along eventually. Best of luck!1
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