I've made up my mind to completely forget this guy...He has hurt me verbally many times, knowing that I cared for him, but he valued his reputation at school (supposedly if he dates someone younger it's a bad thing) and publicly said one too many things that have really shattered me. There was a time when I loved him so much and he completely broke my heart. I couldn't distract myself. Couldn't think straight or focus, or do anything.
He came back after that, apologized...we worked it out. But it's the same old cliche repeating itself... He acts like a total asshole, apologizes, I let it go... But this time he crossed the line, and he still expects me to give in?
I've moved on, but he's the one who keeps coming back to me...and if I'm honest with myself I have suppressed feelings for him deep down, but I can't and don't want to be with him anymore if I won't get treated properly.
I mean I would be perfectly fine if he moved on...but he's trying to get me interested in him again and it's kinda breaking through my "don't give a damn" facade. I haven't reciprocated or anything, I'll continue acting like I don't care...what if in the end I like him again?
They say when you love someone set them free, if they come back it was meant to be, etc.
But does it really?
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Go about your own business and try new things. It takes time. When you try so hard to forget someone, that's counterproductive since you are still thinking about him. Don't worry about what he thinks or says or even if he's still alive. When you are concerned with such things, you subconsciously build your routine around him making it even harder to move on.
Examples of things you don't do involve going on a website and asking questions about your relationship with him. Yes you got some advice now put these words into action! Have fun.0