My past couple relationships I broke off for valuable reasons. I felt like the connection wasn't right or it just working for another reason. But they were all valuable. The probably is after I break things off, I can't seem to stay away. I usually end up calling them, or talking to them. Its happened every time! I see them and find the good things aout them again. But I know its not working. So what do I do, how do I let them go for good?
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All the answers so far by the girls are excellent. It is hard to lose that support you had from another person, to be without anyone you can talk to and be with romantically. Extremely hard, sometimes, in fact. But you have to be your own person too, and you broke it off for good reasons and have to remember those reasons.
Sometime we only remember all the good times, and they overshadow the bad, and then we regret. You need to make sure you continue reminding yourself of those reasons it didn't work. Also, busy yourself with hobbies, reading, movies, going out with friends and having a good time, and they'll just slip naturally from your mind, and you'll realize you're doin' just fine on your own :)1
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