I am understanding in the fact that I may not be the right one for the guys but I build strong friendships with these men and then I don't even get a decent text or call or any word at all that they don't want to see me anymore.
I am not the crazy stalker girl that scares all the guys away. I have many guy friends and my girl friends tell me that I've just met crappy guys.
I'd like to think that I have good judgment and I am very wary about who I choose to open up to. I don't get clingy in a relationship in my eyes and those of friends. I'm a very laid back person and am open to talk about things even if it's bad news on my end.
Were the guys @ssholes, cowards, or what? I'm not an intimidating person and I don't rush into things.
Why do I have this luck is it me or them?
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Wow. I know EXACTLY what you are going thorough. Pretty much every guy I have talked to has done this to me and the majority of them call me back months later trying to go out with me again. I hear all about how uptight their ex's were and how much they hated them but then many of them go back to their exes. Matter of fact that happened to me last night! One of my guy friends says that there's girls you date and girls you marry. He said I was the kind of girl you marry. A girl you marry is somone who isn't gonna hook up with you unless you put in effort an the grls you date aren't gonna take as much effort so they tend to stick with those girls until they grow up. I'm sorry I'm not good at explainin it and I know how incredibly bad it sucks but girls like us just gotta stand strong. Good Luck and have faith!0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE