How many of you have used No Contact?
My ex boyfriend, who broke up with me, wanted to remain friends. For 3 months we have been working on being friends but when I went to pick up a book from his place 3 weeks ago, he completely changed and hardly speaks to me now.
When I was there, things were amazing and I thought we were finally starting to get somewhere but then I see him that night and he is completely cold and was quite rude, and has been ever since.
It wasn't the first time I saw him either (when I picked up the book), we have seen each other a lot since the break up, usually in a public setting though. HE wanted me to come round to pick up this book, HE imitated contact always, even rang me some times and now nothing?
I don't understand what has happened for him to flip a switch like this, I do sometimes wonder if there is something wrong with him mentally but then I think perhaps I am making excuses.
I am thinking of going NC because it is just so hurtful and I need to get over this...
I can't just wait around for someone like this, even though I love him.
How many of you have used NC and how do you go about it?
I am 27, he is 24.
I also think it will help him and make him realize what an ass he is being (and I know it's not meant for this but at the moment I am quite angry after being quite upset for some time).
How long do people usually go for? I've read something about a 30 day rule but I feel I'd need longer.