Hello. Recently my girlfriend broke up with me. She is the secure stubborn type. She said she wanted this year to concentrate on herself. We were together for 9 months and fell for her hard and told her this. I work with her too. 3 weeks ago she said she wanted to have kids with me, but then broke up with me. I tried no contact for a week but she still shot me down. But in work I know she looks at me when I'm not looking but ignores me when I try eye to eye contact what do I do?