So I play squash (a tough racket sport - like tennis but instead of hitting it over the net you hit it against the front wall in case you wondering), and I was in a tournament today. As I was warming up on the bike, the girl I like who confuses me a bit kept walking in front of me from one side of the gym to the other, more than usual. I know her reasonably well (well not like stuff about her but we train together and don't have trouble talking to each other), but each time she walked past me I looked at her to try and make eye contact to say hi, and I'm pretty sure she would have seen me looking at her in her periphery, but she never looked at me. Then she sat about 20 meters away on some bleachers right in front of me, kinda watching a squash game that was going on, and started talking to a guy about a year younger than her for about a minute, then after he left I saw her look around at me (maybe, I'm hoping to see if I was looking at her?). I don't know if this is her trying to make me jealous or something... But yeah, the whole evening she didn't talk to me or look at me and have eye contact. Oh, when she looked at me (again, I'm hoping to see if I was looking at her), I was looking in her direction, but I pretended I was watching a squash match going on beside her, and then right away she noticed and turned around to see what I was looking at and watched the match for a few seconds before doing something else.
All this went on for about a period of 20 minutes (I was on the bike for that long, and about every two minutes she would walk past me a few meters away without looking at me but slightly looking in my direction (let's say normally she would be walking at a 90degree angle away from me; she was walking in a 75degree angle if that makes sense lol)).
So... is this a sign she might like me, and if it is, what should I do? I see her a few times a week, but I'll probably see her more this weekend during the tournament.
Please don't be afraid to be honest in your answers, and don't be afraid to tell me I'm looking to far into things and I'm too crazy / attached. Thanks! :)
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well. to me it sounds like you really want her to like you. and yes, I do think you are reading a bit too far into it. However, I am a shy person when it comes to guys that I like, and I will often do things like walking in front of them to give them more opportunities to check me out or really whatever, even just to see my face more. And since I am shy I often end up shutting down when they get flirty because I get nervous and don't really know how to react. Then when they are just friendly again, I am comfortable and it is easier to talk to them. but honestly you can't take that as every girl's reaction. has she ever been visibly uncomfortable when you try to flirt with her. Like if you ever touch her arm or something does she shy away and sort of distance herself, because if so then that is a very blatant sign that she is not interested.0