How do you find a life after divorce? Fresh out of a divorce here and I’m not looking for a relationship per say at all, not oppose to one but really I was kinda hindered from friendships while married so my friend pool is way stagnant. I’m learning who I am and I’m needing to make some real friendships! Not just with men... but that’d be great as well. What do you do to do that at nearly 37 when you should’ve long ago developed those. I have a best friend that lives a 4 hour plane ride away. At this age there’s not a ton of single or even non child couples to do much with! Ha! I sound so pathetic. Sorry! I’m ready for the haters to tell me I am so if that’s you... you can pass on the comment cause I know. I’m sassy so expect a reply if you get snarky with me! Haha!