So here it goes. I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years now and we've lived together for 1. All my friends say that I'm not the same guy they knew and that I should leave. I love her a lot but she definitely stresses me out, I don't have any time for myself. Things have to work with her schedule all the time, to the point I got almost got in trouble with work because I needed so much time off. And on top of it all I heard my best friends girlfriend say that if I didn't move with her she would leave me. Despite my ranting like I said I love her a lot and given time I thought she might be the one but this kind of ultimatum I don't like at all. She's asking me to leave all my friends and family I have, along with a job that pays pretty well for me to follow her back to college. I would have me work multiple minimum wage jobs to make ends meet. What would you do in my position?