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Ghosting hurts because you are looking for someone more mature, so, unfortunately, that person is not the right one for you (Immature). you can't change what happened, but you can do something about it. learn from it so you can reduce the risk of being ghosted again.I'm sorry for what you're going through.
Have you ever been ghosted?
yeah (2009), and I learned that I’m someone who is bad at letting go. I hold onto the things I don’t understand, the things I don’t have answers to, the people who left me with uncertainties about myself, and the closure I’ll never get. I kept asking myself, was I not good enough? was I not good looking enough? what’s wrong with me? the answer was... it’s not me, we weren't suitable for each other. so I decided It’s better to let things go than to let it fester. the more you try to get an answer, the lower self-confidence you get... let it go.
I was ghosted. It's not cool. I feel like I'm stupid
You're not stupid, and I'm sure that if you knew what would happen, you wouldn't give the chance for anyone to ghost you. look, no one enjoys wasting their time, so it’s better he ghosted you now than did something equally as shitty down the line. you dodged a massive bullet, so breathe a sigh of relief.I've had the same experience, and I'm also happy that what happened made me create a good relationship with myself before committing to someone else to avoid the past happening again. the point is, don’t let being ghosted rock your confidence and stop you from living your life. you've become smart enough to survive, live your life.
Try finding someone else or do something you enjoy doing. Just try to keep yourself busy then you won't think about him
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