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would hate to talk about this on public, but i feel there's a message that needs to be thrown. i broke up with him because he had no respect for me. and i'm not talking about the shallow acts of respect, where he opens the door for you or pull your chair. those are nice to some but not essential to me. my ex boyfriend kept using me and abusing me emotionally for a year, he would treat me nicely only when it's convenient, he never shared his life with me or involved me. he was lonely and broken and i tried to help him, but he didn't let me. so i was trying to force things and he kept resisting it. it ended up with a heart break. what am trying to say, that girls, and boys, anyone who's in love really, just don't stick around for someone too much if they don't do the same. don't save a spot for someone who wouldn't do the same and don't stay in a relationship where you have to fight for your spot. you might think you're being supportive and with time they will realize how valuable you are with time, but that's all wrong. that's a wrong base of a relationship. you're waiting for them to love you cause you're being nice and supportive while that isn't a legit relationship ground. i wish you all the best. :D
@wayy11aa but it seems so tough to find someone who really loves and values u the same😢. And without this its all worthless as u said.😩
He was really nasty to me, we were dating. OK yes it was casual to start but then he started including me in various areas of his life. Discussing family issues, work troubles, Wed have dinner together, watch films at mine, just chill. I didn't mind as we were gradually progressing. Anyways he went on holiday for t weeks and well he kept asking for nudes when I wouldn't send any he got annoyed and didn't talk to me for a few days. When he returned I really wanted to see him, I had a gift as well then he snapped at me saying I was acting like I was his girlfriend, so I asked him what was up and he said it was just casual and that he's talking to other girls, that ideally He wanted us to have a threesome but not to get too attached as he wanted to move back to his Home country Guyana. I was mortified with the Wayne was talking to me so I just stopped answering his calls and messages.
Thanks for picking my answer
We had been on a few good dates and things were going great, I was ready to ask her to "go steady" and be exclusive. I had planned for her to meet my son as the last step, since obviously that's important if someone is going to be in my life. She tried to copy a text message I sent her to share in a group text with her girlfriends, but accidentally added me to the group- it was the first group text I'd ever been part of so I wasn't sure who these people were or why they were texting me. So I was trying to set up a date with her to meet my son, and she was texting me back nicely, being sweet and agreeable. Then I'd get another text from her saying, "guess what he just said, wtf is he thinking?" I did see that they, including my would-be girlfriend, were talking crap about me in third person though. "Is he going to introduce me to his son as just just some girl he's banging?" Then her friends all took turns bashing me as though I was some kind of sleazy player. I was taken aback and offended since I thought we were doing great. When I realized what was going on I immediately called her and told her I was getting messages from her group. She felt super awkward, but that was the end.
That's fucked up
But if that's how she wanted to take it then I guess you're better off
Yeah I guess so. It's a shame though, I'd had a crush on that girl in high school and we both happened to get divorced from our spouses and run into each other.
I thought she was being too emotionally dependent on me and needed space to build up independence for herself. I was so wrong for doing that when I realized she had very controlling parents who never allowed her to see her friends anywhere outside of school because they were paranoid. She needed companionship; someone to be around and hang out with so she could be herself. I really regretted not talking to her more about the issue beforehand so the break-up would have never happened in the first place! She wasn't trying to control my emotions by being manipulative; she really did need to be loved by someone close to her since her parents were emotionally abusive and she had no family/friends nearby who would help her at the time. That's one of the reasons why we have such a strong foundation in our relationship currently because we were there for each other during the rough times in life and I don't regret a single moment of it.
Way too much pressure and I was unsure about the whole thing
I couldn’t accept some things about her but love made me blind. I wasn’t happy with her during the last months and our relationship turned into a long distance one because I had to move out of the city to study. We both had trust issues and jealousy overtook every time. My girlfriend was that kind of a, “everybody-is-hitting-on-me” girl which always caused me to be stressed and she also used to enjoy making me jealous. Didn’t like her habits as well. She was an aggressive/quick tempered person. Moreover, I also wouldn’t date someone with a lot of ex partners, I don’t care if the person we are talking about is an angel. Lastly, I wanted to go separate ways and today I’m happy I did because otherwise I would have probably ended up beaten across the street one day due to snapping every cat-caller or lost my mind.
Was kinda mutual, but to be technical, she broke up with me. She said she was too busy, didn't need me, didn't think she could put enough time & effort in with school, dance, work blah blah. She was in a relo with "the guy who's like a bestfriend to me" while we were dating within like 3 months. Safe to safe, kinda turned me off women for ages after that.
I was trying to fix a relationship that hadn’t even started and she was giving up on a relationship that hadn’t even started and also ever since one of the people that I have beef with told her I said shit about her even thou I never did she had trust issues so basically we were doomed from the start but also she told me she used to play a lot of guys in the past which kinda made me also have trust issues with her I still opened up to her but I did have that in mind
And in the end she left me for another guy
What a cunt
Man you're better off, if she wants to play games then unplug your controller and walk away from ET for super nintendo
Wow nice reference and yeah you are right thanks
Lol thanks, no one needs that kind of trouble
He was using me for sex. He had a girlfriend I didn't know about and then when I caught him, he told me that he's end it. I got to know that they have a pretty good relationship, he was just thirsty for sex.
My ex-husband was abusive. He tried to strangle me in front of my kids. I never looked back. He guy I’m seeing now is the first since I left in 2012 and he is the exact opposite of my ex-husband. Truly healing my heart. And currently doing my laundry because I had surgery yesterday and he doesn’t want me to risk my recovery.
She cheated on me and I found out by her changing her WhatsApp profile to her and her new "boyfriend". The sick thing is my ex wife did exactly the same thing. Both were very damaged people. Been molested as kids. Still that's no excuse. I've now found someone amazing.
He was a manipulative controlling sick man and I’ve mistaken it for love. I’ve too many people for him 2 or 3 of my good friends n 1 of my Best friends me n my BFF are ok now but sure is the gap is still there we feel it I fucked up. He was one hell of a bad influence I had to cut him off but I was a bit too late. But hey I don’t regret it I learnt my lesson
I don't know.She called time on things, never really explained it. I tried to ask her to reconsider but she just said she didn't want to be in a relationship with me. I wasn't going to hang around where l wasn't wanted.
He started acting cold, being depressed, rejecting me every time I try to get closer to him. This continued for a month and when I suggested to meet Cuz we were in long distance relationship, he said im not sure I'm ready to continue this. So we broke up. And he found a local girl 2 days after. The pain I got through was fkin insane.
Lol he was cheating for sure
I think so too. Makes no sense otherwise.
it was a long distance relationship and it lasted well for 6 months and suddenly he stopped contacting , sending texts , calling etc... basically he didn't even say anything to me... just got ghosted
@interstellar yeah... toooo harsh TT
Well he broke up with me, because I didn't have sex with him. I honestly probably would have ended up breaking up with him at some point though, as I wasn't really feeling it which is why I never had sex with him.
We weren’t goal-oriented compatible and I lost all romantic attraction to him because he had no drive or inspiration to do much in the here and now. It sucked but we are still friends... still dealing with the differences but zero sex lol I’m celibate now
At one point I was only with him because he had a very hard life at home and I felt like I couldn’t just leave him behind like that. We knew we had no future together since we lived ages away from each other, I cried every night because of it. It felt more like a caretaker type of relationship, so I mentioned that I was unhappy and he made the choice to cut it off.
Moved across the world and they didn’t want to continue a long distance relationship. We talked about it later, but after a few discussions we ended up not trying.
Lack of communication and I was tired of not being able to live my own dreams and experiences. I was always putting him first and was tired of assuming his responsabilities, I wasn't his mom but sometimes it felt like I was
It was more than the distance. Personal problems, family problems, the almost 0 sex life I had with my ex brought me to the edge. Mentally I wasn't stable anymore (I am still not), so I decided to end the relation.
He was abusive, cheated on me for 3 years out of our 4 year relationship. Had a baby on me. But I will say I am thankful for the experience because I know what signs to look out for. Plus I found my boyfriend, lover best friend, future father ( of my twins sons ) lol 5 months later, and we’ve been together for 3 years now. I thank God for him every day!
He cheated on me. I was with him for about 2 years and I had a feeling it was happening but I didn’t want to leave without being sure. I hacked his Snapchat & found out lol
controlling and paranoid. i wasn't ready to conform to it and it drove me away and into realizing being tied to him wasn't good at my age.he wanted kids in five years and marriage in two.totally different pages.
Last relationship ending: Ex: "Please stop working outso much, i dont like you getting so muscular."No comment on that one.
I don't like muscular either😐
If a girl is more fit than I am, then it's fine, but if she's more muscular than me by a huge margin, then I'd feel like I need a safe word to date her
But in all honesty, you keep doing You, you're more fit than most people I know
@The_Flying_Camel Well if you dont like it you dont need to date me :D I understand preferences but if he has a problem with me... i won't change.. get another girl :D
@Blackbrowny hella true, and a decent guy that cares about you wouldn't ask you change either
She was probably fed up with my shit. But I had been fed up with hers and still stayed so that was my own fault.
My last ex is a nice guy and all but we just aren't compatible in a relationship
We were not spending enough time together and I felt like he was cheating
She didn't love me like I loved her. I wanted her to be happy.. that's all she deserves and more. Still, I did everything to forget her. Apparently, it's not going the way I would have preferred, though there's a plan.
Ghosted after 2 years. Then stabbed in the back a month or so later...
Moved away after 2 years things got rough we tried to do long distance but I missed being with her then it just got rough and I felt like she needed something real and I told her to find another guy you will be happier
Because my exGF had a lot of unhealthy jealousy, was possessive and controlling so I grew very tired of her insecurities!
We both got super insecure about everything. And I didn’t trust a word he said because he’d cheated on me
He also emotionally abused me. Constantly breaking up with me just to hurt me, and saying horrible things to me, then getting back with me.
She was toying with me from the start, she tricked me into believing she loved me but I wasn't even her "true bf"One day she called me out to a park and she introduced me to her actual boyfriend and they both started laughing and pointing and me and saying how stupid I was and blah blah. Kinda fucked up lol
It's find now though, I found the love of my life c:
She had asked her friend who is also coincidentally my friend that she wasn't ready for a relationship and I was "Okay, it sucks but it's fine" and a week later she was dating someone else, so that made me a little mad
I actually almost forgot we were dating because it was back in highschool 5 years ago
I didn't want to be with her anymore. She was my love, but I was not that important to her, or at least she didn't act like that. Now that I broke up with her, she is the one who still behind me trying to get me back but every time I see her y remember why I did it and I took the better desition.
Cause he betrayed me when I needed him the most/ we had no trust/ he started distancing himself. Too many reasons
He had an inferiority complex and felt insecure about my achievements. I broke up with him so he can find a partner he didn't feel envious or jealous of.
Hmm... drama. I liked someone who didn’t like me...
One was a major hoe, the other was a bootleg pornstar
It felt like an empty relationship. Plus, she didn't have any aspiration to improve herself or any self love.
My ex was okay but he didn't really take the time to get to know me or be with me and then I found out he lied to me
It was so silly. He got mad I did not Skype with him. The fight got ugly when I didn't care about his drama. If something so dumb ends a relationship, then we are better alone.
She was bisexual she was in a relationship with me and was also having sex with another girl, in the end she turned out to be more of a lesbian so we broke up. At least on good terms.
Because he sucked as a human. And because he broke promises.
I felt bo node love and didn't just be with her for sex... wich wasn't even good...
Too clingy, too jealous, realized I don't want a girlfriend can't commit to just one girl
Because she did not care for the relationship at all. I got annoyed about it and started having fights all the time.
He said that he didn't has a time for me as her girlfriend but for his classmates and other Girls he had a tíme and he didn't accepted me and myself
She cheated on me... Funny part is I moved away, one year later she lives across the street from me... No JOKE!
He was extremely physically, emotionally, and mentally abusive. The day I woke up to my phone being thrown at my face and tasting blood was the day I finally realized this was never going to end.
I gotta know, y even try dating him in the first place?
He was charming an sweet at first. When I lost my job I moved in with him. After that I became isolated and he was all I had. Ever heard of Stockholm's syndrome?
Yeah. Im sorry to hear that happened to u.
It was a long distance relationship so it didn't work out.
She punched me in my eye when drunk, plus she was a annoying bitch
I Just Didn't wanted Yo Be in A Relationship with Anyone Just Wanted to be Alone
Or you couldn't get a girlfriend
Honestly i only loved one girl but she rejected me after that 3 girls proposed to me but i rejected and decided to stay single untill i become a successful person in life
My last ex boyfriend that I Did broke up with him since he cheated on me. I caught him cheating and that how I dumped him. Cheater is being in the trash. I move on.
The signs were there that it was ending. I've been through the 3 months of awkwardly trying to keep it together while they show interest in other people before and thought "yeah no".
Cheated on me with a co worker of his. 5 years down the drain
Same ex cheated on me with my best friend ( our co-worker) 7 years down the drain I feel ya
Apparently, she was "losing herself" in our relationship. She felt she couldn't (wouldnt) commit to a relationship... After barely 6 months of dating. And a bunch of other typical breakup cliches. Oh and the kicker? She broke up with ME.
Are you a Leo?
She was cheating on me with one of my best friends.
They tried to commit suicide then blamed me for everything.
Controlling, abusive you name it. But i got a handsome baby boy from him.
See was lying and cheating on me for over a year. But the funny thing is she broke up with me.
She was suspecting me on every thing at any detail,
I was “emotionally distant and nonchalant”, a chronic problem for me.
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