It's been a year since the break up and we rarely get in touch. Unfortunately her uncle passed away last week and she just came crying to me. Even though it caught me by surprised, I still tried to comfort her. The next day she told me the funeral was going to be on Friday and that she would like me to go. Honestly I don't know what to do, the brake up wasn't pretty (when is it right?), and her family hates me. Part of me wants to go since I personally knew the guy but I don't want to cause any problems.