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1. CryBefore you hop up on your high horse or claim you don’t need to let your emotions run their course, remember the more you try to deny how you feel, the less likely you are to release those feelings. It’s healthy, mature and responsible to be honest about your ever-changing emotions. Part of the solution of how to get over an ex is understanding disappointment and tears provide progress.2. Cut off contact – including social mediaYou could be doing well on your way to moving on– not thinking about or feeling sad about that past flame for month –but one quick review of a social media account can set you back for months. Instantly, you may feel sad, or you may tell yourself that your ex is happier than you or that they found someone else. While it’s true you shouldn’t trust what you see on social media, it also shouldn’t matter. You can only really get closure by releasing your connection to them in all aspects, including digitally.3. Don’t try to be friendsYou may want to understand how to get over your ex girlfriend, but the trouble is she’s still your best friend. Or he still comes into your mind all the time. Here’s the deal: don’t still hang out with his buddies. Don’t text him when his favorite song plays on the radio. The easiest and healthiest way to get over someone is to initiate clear boundaries.While it’s true ‘out of sight’ doesn’t necessarily mean ‘out of mind,’ intentional space can certainly make the process of moving on smoother.4. Get rid of remindersHow to get over someone quickly? Remove those physical reminders that bring them to the front of your mind. Throw out his magazines and toothbrush lying around your house. Don’t ask for your stuff back. Stop cheering for his team. Don’t wear his old shirt to bed. Let yourself mourn and start fresh, with no lingering reminders or memory triggers of what once was. (If you hate ketchup and it’s only in the fridge because he’s addicted to it, toss it.)5. Stop analyzing and regrettingFor when you’re wondering how to get over an ex boyfriend or how to get over an ex girlfriend, one of the most important steps to take is accepting the decision. No matter if you made the choice or he or she did, don’t let yourself second-guess it. Stop analyzing the play-by-play of your relationship. Don’t get stuck in the ‘would haves’ and ‘should haves,’ stop looking for reasons and explanations, and learn to accept the finality of the breakup.6. Visualize a dead relationshipI read an article
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Realize he's enjoying 2 girls pining over him and he's a douch because she's either a rebound about to get hurt or they are in it for the long haul but he has a cheating mind. Be glad you got out when you did dont be his back up , find someone (s) to have new conversations with to get a new perspective on old things. And try to move away a bit or work a different shiftso your not the but he chose me girl it won't be a happy ending
It's always difficult and sometimes impossible to forget someone you've been with for a while but that doesn't mean there aren't solutions that can make this tolerable at the very least! The first and best thing to do is to completely cut contact of him; both in person and online. If he already has a girlfriend as it is, the last thing he needs is to be tempted by you once more. One method I like doing is taking a journal and writing multiple pages about my feelings towards someone; what I liked about them and what I didn't like about them just to get it out of my system. After that, tear up the pages and either throw them away or burn them. Once you've finished getting your emotions out and have no way of contacting him, try dating someone anew! It'll really help when you can devote your attention to someone you like; making you less likely to think about your ex-boyfriend in the process. It'll take time but eventually, he'll no longer be a huge part of your memory anymore! Hope this helps!
The easiest thing to do is just remember all the reasons you both broke up. If it was mutual, then you know the fights and arguments that lead to your split. If he broke up with you, then just remember the reasons he gave you for why he broke up with you. And if you broke it off with him, then focus on the reasons why you chose to end it with him. Did you fix the issues that lead to the end of your relationship? Did he improve in the areas about himself that you broke up with him for? Did you fix the areas about yourself that he broke up with you for?
I'm dealing with a similar situation. My ex and I don't see each other every day, nor does she currently have a boyfriend, but we live in the same town and have mutual friends. She's told me twice that she misses me, but thinks if we see each other it will only make things worse because she has things going on in her life that she needs to handle as an individual-- she's a recovering pill addict. Our break up killed me, but I kept my composure, and respected her wishes. The unfortunate truth is someone can "miss you", but if they don't miss you bad enough to want to see you or be with you, then how much can they really miss you? It's a hard truth to swallow, and in my case I can at least say "well she's trying to do what's best for her." But in your case, my advice would be, don't read too much into his words. If he really missed you that much, he would break up with his current girlfriend and work on your relationship. I would suggest avoiding him indefinitely, but I don't know the context in which you see each other daily. Is it work? School? If it's not either of those, or another scenario where you can't exactly avoid him without drastically changing your life, then I would suggest telling him that you don't want to talk to him. If you feel the need to give him a reason, just say you're doing what's best for you, and if he really does still care about you he should understand and respect that. Break ups are never easy, I feel your pain and wish you the best!
Don't forget anything. That's actually going backwards.What you do is look for even stronger love, than you had with your ex, that you can't forget.If we understood, that love is built by rising above hate and transgressions, there would be a lot less break ups.Bit if a break up is inevitable, you do the same with someone else, that is go forward with even stronger love.They say that the problems wi be mostly the same no matter who you date. If that's true, then love is love and it has to grow and it doesn't really matter whose face represents it for you.
Hello dear, Breakup hurts and it's a fact irrespective of how bad that relationship was. I don't say it was bad for you but I'm just saying the fact that this happens too. I believe you need to find happiness, try spending time with friends and tell them to help you (remember there's a difference between people who're your friends and people you think are your friends) so before telling someone just think, spending time with family and friends reduce that pain, have some laugh with them, keep yourself busy, do the things you love and are completely involved in. Also if you want him to regret or if he did something bad to you then use it as a motivation to tell him about the mistake he did. Remember If you want. I hope this helps😊
Ooof these are hard. The best thing you can do is ignore him. Tell him you need space, and take that space, there's gonna be an ache in your heart whenever you think of him or see him, but you've gotta power through it. It'll be the first thing on you mind in the morning for days, weeks even, until one of those days, its the second thing on your mind. Once you've gotten over him, then you might he able to stay friends, but not before that. The hurt is too raw and the temptation too real.
I'm going to tell you this it depends on how much you love them that will determine how long it takes you to get over them if it's your first love you'll probably never get over it but you will find better ways to cope with it. Just get back to do when you get back to doing the things that make you happy and then time you won't think about him so much and you definitely won't feel what you're feeling now
He says he misses you eat he has a girlfriend. Looks like he has either moved on or just playing with the other girl and probably you too. These kinda guys will go wherever they get p*ssy no offense. Do try to avoid him and keep reminding yourself that there are better guys out there who will appreciate you for what you are and actually love you.
If you truly love them you’ll never forget/get over them, you’ll just learn how to cope with it in time, let that sink in, & ask yourself is he worth that much of your time? Or can you do better by his example next time?
Write down a list of things you never liked about him or the times you'll fought and why. Everyone you think of him, read that list to yourself. You can't force another person to be with you so know that it didn't work out for the best and the future has a lot better in store for you
It's called being friendzoned. You need to start widening yourself especially in the case where you seem him daily. If he thinks someone is better than you and has chosen her over you then don't you think that girl no one can replace you? So the world is full of strangers start looking at new faces rather than wasting time one the one that doesn't even values your importance in his life.
Step one : move on by blocking him Step two: start to focus on yourself and your future goals Step three: find yourself a new man that will treat you right and not cheat on his girlfriend because the same thing he’s doing to her he will do to you if you guys get back together
Sounds like he's a pos. You like pieces of shit. He's given himself to a girl as he says behind her back to his ex that he's missing her. Not much loyalty. Hmmm 14 years old. Forget about it. Enjoy your cookies 🍪. Yum Yum Yum, aren't they great? 😋
Oh he is a disgrace. Worthless gameplaying scum. Probably wants to date both of you. You are worth more than that LeeAreum. Tell him U ain't missing his childish arse, blank him & go and find an upgrade, a real man with respect for You.
When I say real man, I don't mean a grown man. I mean a young lad who is mature mentally enough to treat a girl with respect. They are around, the ones well brought up by their parents.
find some one else. don't see him anymore and cut all connection with him. make new memories with some one else. keep your mind busy and don''t think about him all at.
You don't forget him. That's not how it works.But yes seeing him everyday will make it harder to move on. I'm sorry girl.
Time. Breaking up will always hurt. Spend your time with friends hobbies and eventually you will move on.
Umm I guess the breakup wasn't fully mutual.About forgetting him, it might be better that you accept that both of you are on different paths.Talking to your bestie about it might be better than looking for troll opinions on an app
Tell him he should miss you and cut off all contact in a none direct way and move on to another boyfriend.
You can never forget him as its ur core memory. Unless and until you fall in love or have crush with someone new, and you feel the your new man more important its not possible to forget ur ex.
Confront him in front off his girlfriend and say why do you miss me? It's the only way to really know
Don't listen to him. And go get a new boyfriend then move on unless you want him back? Then I don't know what to tell you😒Good luck...
Just get over it, your 14. People our age should worry about education only. You will find the man of your dreams later on.
Wise words from someone in the same age..👍👍👍
U try dont see him, block him on all social media, and give time. Meet new people, go out with friends...
Forgetting someone usually isn't possible. What you can do is accept the reality and embrace it until it doesn't bother you anymore. He's your ex, he's a living person, and you can accept this fact and eventually move on.
Block him so you won't have to put up with his crappy messages.
Fall in love wigh someone and ignore him... harsh but that's life
Amnesia, find a better guy, ghost him out of your life
Why forget? It's a part of your life. Take the good with the bad!
I'm a dude but I think it's depends on the bond and I mean I think eventually you will forget about it.
I would say give it time it was hard for me to forget my girlfriend but now over time I kinda got over her
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It takes time to forget your ex. You need to find another one
If he's got a girlfriend and tells you, another girl, that he misses you, he's scum. Try to realise that. He probably did it behind your back too
Your 14. You'll get over it eventually just stay away from him. Focus on your hobbies that helps.
sleep with random guy, actually u can pick random guy from this post :)
It sounds like he might be just taunting u cause your not with someone.
Get a new boyfriend. Find a new hobby. Spend more time just doing whatever you want.
😂East stop seeing him avoid him like a plague and find someone else
You can't forget it's part of life you just have to learn to be ok with it the pain will subside
Easy. Get another man. The easiest way to get over someone is to find someone else
oh dear! Its so hard for you! What I suggest is make a new boyfriend and talk with your ex boyfriend like a old friend... laughing and like that. Be easy with him. This should work.
1) Stop contacting him. Block... don't respond2) Meet someone new
Remind yourself of that time he said he loved you when he was obvioulsy full of bs.
If you figure out how to forget an ex, tell me how.
Well just try to talk with others and slowly try to forget about him. Just ignore him and try to find someone else
Move on in your life and be busy in the stuff you like doing
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It's difficult to forget him.. since he had a girlfriend then u try be his best friend!!!
Unfortunately - a new boyfriend is the best way
Go get yourself a new guy... Takes away all the bs
Just ignore him as best you can.
Just Find another one
your like 14 how do you even have an ex
You get a very bad concussion and lose your memory
By making new boyfriend
Hook up with his friends to keep your mind off him
Making her a slut
The way they are meant to be
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Oh hey ;)
You seem reapectful 😘
To the curb with him
get replacement is the best way to get happy
Try not to see him everyday
Fuck someone else.
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