I have been with my ex girlfriend for just over 4 years.
-we have a 3 old boy together
-Things haven't been so easy for us since we had our little one. We never had a chance to be on our own, we have always lived with her parents.
-I messed up along the way and thought I wanted to be young instead of be with her. Awe broke up for about 2 months fall of 2008.
-We got back together and have had bumps here and there with each other, but have always felt strong enough to work through our problems...
-We finally moved out on our own after my career took off and she got into dental school. When I thought things were finally going great for us and I was ready to marry her, she broke it off saying she was unhappy and couldn't let go of our past mistakes...She said that she doesn't feel special to me and that all I care about is going to the gym and cleaning our positions? she doesn't have another guy (that I know of) and I don't know how she is going to get by financially...I just don't understand where this has come from so strongly...I am so in love with her, and we have a family together...I am completely torn. help
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Oh dear. I feel for you, hon. You need to give her time. Honestly, I don't know what's going through her mind but she needs time I reckon. You want her back right?
After some time, you need to talk to her. I think you need to sit down and have a heartfelt chat. Is there anything about you that needs to change? Ask her! You need to be willing to compromise. It seems worth it, especially for your son. You need to think about him and if your relationship seems worth salvaging, do it! Xx0
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