My boyfriend and I broke up after 18yrs and three kids. I reunited with an old friend. Our friendship was 20+ years but did lose contact for a while. We started seeing each other and she semi- recently got divorced. I thought our relationship was going somewhere 3x. She would go hard and say and do all the right things. Made me feel like she truly loved me. And right when I feel we are in a good place, she pulls back. Pls help.