I have been cheated on a few times by men and have a very hard time trusting anyone anymore. I have a great boyfriend but I feel like eventually he is going to hurt me in some way. I have no trust in him and have looked through his phone before and always wonder if he has something going with someone else. I don't know how to trust and have a healthy relationship. Any advice for me?
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An ex of mine also was going through the same things as you have. She was cheated on several times in the past, and no matter how much I tried to prove to her that I was different, she ended it saying that she thinks I would cheat on her.
It's hard, but you'll have to realize that the current guy is not the same person the previous was. I'm not sure if that made sense, but, each person is different in a way. It's going to take quite a bit of effort to trust your current boyfriend completely, but try to see him for the person he is and don't base it on your exes.
I truly hope you are able to get past this and that it doesn't hurt your relationship in any form. Best of luck!0