Whenever he talks about his day at work, I find myself getting insecure/paranoid that he was with a woman having lunch, or getting to know her. He works pretty closely with a team, and I’m sure there are women on it. He’s mentioned a few girls he’s met, like the new intern and it just makes me worry so much. He’s told me “I see how much you trust me, and I know it’s hard for you because of your past. I don’t ever want to ruin that for you”. But, he said this before his job. I don't know if he still means it.
I don’t want to bring this up to him. He sees me as a woman who knows her worth and value, and won’t settle for less. I don’t get insecure or jealous with him. But, I am just so worried and afraid.
Most Helpful Guy
Of course it's a risk, but bear in mind that a woman's career matters less to men than the reverse. He could just as well bump into a beautiful woman on his commute, and that would be that. Not to make you even more paranoid, just to put it into perspective.
Most Helpful Girl
It sounds like you have some issues you need to work out. Talking to him is probably your best bet apart from working on your issues. He could put your mind at ease. You have to understand that if he truly loves you he won't forgot about you or lose interest in you. Would you forgot about him or lose interest if the situation was reversed?