My ex just messaged me on Facebook and this is what she said: "Got a new gf? ;) I hope you are well. " I just chatted with her Monday. and she left me for her ex, they are living together now. She broke up with me a few months ago...after spilling my heart out to her like 2 weeks ago...saying she is the love of my life and I want her back (didn't know she was living with her ex). Why would she message me this. I really want her back...what does that mean and how should I respond to that. Lol...I don't have a new girlfriend, and I am not doing well. I don't know what to say. hmmm...what do I do?
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She has probably felt secure in the fact that she has moved on and the possibility of a new girlfriend in your life has made her curious. She may even be a little jealous. This DOES not necessarily mean she wants you back but the thought of an ex with another person always brings back old feelings and a little envy that you are sharing things with a new partner.
If you really want her back your going to have to play this out to your favour. Don't lie but don't tell the truth. Keep her guessing. Just reply something along the lines of "she's a great looking girl right". She'll either reply she's happy for you or get a little insecure. Then leave it, wait for her to contact you. If she starts to believe she is losing you and wants you back she'll soon let you know. Hope you get what you want!0