Dated this girl for a couple of months; things were great until she just dropped the bomb on me. She's insecure and thought I'd cheat on her (several of her exes have), and no matter how much I threw in for her during the relationship, it wasn't enough.
Regardless, she wanted to be "friends" since she believed we understood each other so well. I don't get this at all--how can I just be friends after being dumped like that?
It's been a month since the break-up and I've gotten over her mostly. Do I go back for the friendship offer she had or do I take her out of my life completely (ie, delete off FB, delete message history, throw out gifts, photos, everything)?
- Become friendsVote A
- Toss everything and move onVote B
On another note, anyone notice the clear division on the poll?
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If you've gotten over her mostly then why the need to delete her completely out of your life? I say you just leave it be as it is. The line "let's just be friends" usually is used for damage control and to make the break up seem not so bad and the person who is doing the break up not so much of a terrible person. If she hasn't made an effort to be your friend then leave it be especially since if you guys do hang out there's a chance you might just put yourself into a bad situation and gain feelings for her again. Its never a good idea to put yourself in a situation that may hurt you especially if the other person won't feel the same way.1