Is this a huge amount of baggage or am I just being selfish?


Long story short.
Seeing a widower for 3 months. He has an 8 yr old daughter and 15 yr old son living with him. The son has no friends and the father spends the weekend entertaining the kids. There is also a live in nanny but she's not there on weekends.
His 24 yr old daughter from previous marriage moving in the basement apartment so she can work 15 min away.
I have no kids and never dated anyone with kids. They seem nice and he wants to start incorporating into the family... I'm just not sure if this will eventually drive me nuts having no privacy or maybe ill love it.
But I'd hate to have his kids get attached and then we break up
I think this is mounds of baggage but better then an ex wife around...
Any thoughts?
Is this a huge amount of baggage or am I just being selfish?
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