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It's time and attention he is giving to another person instead of you, and also presumably something he was lying about knowing that you wouldn't be happy about it. It sounds like you need to have a serious talk to decide whether this marriage is going to continue, starting with what he is getting from this online affair that he's not getting from you?
He told me it's because I don't pay attention to him because I work two jobs. And if I didn't snoop I wouldn't have found out. But when I get a text whole I'm at work send me a video. Yeah im going to look. I guess I'm asking do most guys consider it not cheating. 10 years of marriage and our son is what's keeping me from ending it.
Two jobs? I assume he is also working?
It really sounds like your man is trying to justify what he knows is a string of poor choices on his part. Whether he feels neglected by you or not, his avoidant behavior is causing more issues for the relationship in general.Emotion cheating is real, and it happens A LOT on the internet.
Well, like women, all men are individuals and thus would have different opinions on this. As for my opinion, well it depends on how you define online cheating. If he is just talking with women and befriending them, then it is not cheating. Everyone has the right to have and make friends if they want to. But, if he is talking to them in a sexually explicit manner, exchanging sexual photos, or having webcam sex, then yes that is cheating.
what is the concept of cheating? it is having the desire to have someone else so it is in your mind not your deed, so it is cheating and of course for ladies, no it is not she is just having fun but when it gets real she is exploring options but if her guy is doing that it betrail, double standards apply
Yes, I would say that it's cheating.
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