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He appears to be reacting to you the same way you reacted to him after he made his accusation. You also don't say, as others have pointed out, if there is any merit to his claim, nor have you said if your text to him included an apology for how you reacted. So far I don't see anything from you to suggest it's in his best interest to communicate with you, even if you can show his accusation was out of line.
That aside, I think there is some possibility this can be fixed if he can cool down and you can be contrite and not so defensive as he tries to explain his view and you try and express yours. Hopefully you can both find a compromise.
Maybe reflect on your financial relationship? Does he buy a lot of things for you? Does he always pay for the food? I think most relationships work better if it's about 50/50. Talk to him about it. Work out how you guys will pay for things. That's all I got.
You have lots of options. Here are some good ones:1) Write down what he said. Believe that he is not only correct, but that you were wrong.2) Write down what he said. Believe that it doesn't matter if he's correct or not, it only matters that he feels that way.3) Write down what he said. Write down how you feel about it. Now throw those away and tell him you want to move past this.
Sure, but you've got to address whatever it was that caused him to say what he did.
If he was wrong, he will find out - and it can be fixed.If he was right, the next one can be exploited. That's what they do HERE.
You probably did not realize that you were using him as a bank. Maybe it is normal for you to ask your boyfriend for money and more money and more money. Good for him to turn you away and he found out about what really matters to you.
Do you ever offer to pay for meals? Do you say thank you when he buys things? I’ve encountered women who take guys completely for granted on this one.
"I ignored him". Oh my, you blew this one. Time for a new guy. Don't use the next one like a bank. ;)
well do you use him as a bank?
This man asking the real questions.
get yourself an actual banka Swiss Gentleman
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