My girlfriend of 2 years dumped me about 3 weeks ago and a week after that, I found out she is now dating another man. This man, she has been chatting on MSN and texting with each other while we were still together. They were probably doing it for 2 months max. When I found out, I just got really pissed and said she cheated and said every single swear word I could think of. That was very childish of me and I wish I didn't do that. Also, after careful thinking, I realized she didn't really cheat but left me before moving on. The reason she left me was "I can't love you the way you love me and so we need to end this" and it's not the first time, it happened before. Obviously, now she hates me and blocked me in every single way possible (facebook, twitter, MSN etc). I guess this is a good thing to be away from contact. But I still love her...would it be possible for me to slowly win her back from this? obviously I won't rush or else that would turn bad but if I wait too long, maybe she will completely forget about me and moved on with the new guy. I don't know if what she is doing counts as a rebound or if she actually really fell in love with that guy. But I think it was the guy that kept on persisting at first. I know my chances are slim but she was so special to me. Thanks!
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she is not worth it. I know you love her and you don't want to move on but honestly she is just going to pull the rug out from under your feet again and again. this might seem like a stupid analogy but it was the first thing I thought of. If you have ever seen The Holiday, Miles (jack Black) has a girlfriend that cheats on him and he realizes that he always falls for the bad girls that just go breaking his heart. He thinks this girl is the love of his life and then he realizes, after he meets kate Winslet and forms an awesome friendship that becomes a romance he finally realizes that he deserves a woman that is good. So, the moral of the story is that you need to get over this chick because she is bad news and actually go for a girl that is good.0