Yeah, he cheated on me after being together for over a year. I was away for a photo shoot and he cheated, my bff told me when I got back, and I ended it immediately. He's asking for me back, but don't know if I should. Opinions please?
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The fact of the matter is no one here can really answer that question for you as we weren't there. What we can do is to try and get you to look at all sides of both options.
How much does he still mean to you?
Do you think he's completely disrespectful to you, or just had a lapse in judgement?
Will you be able to trust him again?
Is this something that you can forgive?
Do you think he's now being sincere?
There are a lot of preconceived notions about cheaters (not entirely unfounded, don't hate me), but the fact of the matter is they are NOT all the same. Some really are the douchebags that will just hurt you again, but some can be good people that had a weak moment. Going with that, some people can forgive cheating where as some people are hurt too badly from it to be able to start over again (that's not referring to holier than thou people, that's referring to those where all they associate with that person anymore is the fact that they cheated). A sad reality is that a study showed that more than 50% of people will cheat in a marriage, and men and women are almost equally likely to cheat.
Those questions we can't answer for you, you have to answer them. They can be summed up in "Do you think that you can go back to what you had together before the photo shoot?"
PS No I have never cheated on anyone.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE