I'm confused my girlfriend broke up with me a few days ago and then I found out that she has a new boyfriend it hurts...
Is it right if I stay away even though she said she wants me to stay as a friend?
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nobody deserves this treatement. if they officially became a couple after you two broke up, then she was seeing him while you were together. she just wants to keep you close incase their relationship doesn't work out, she won't be alone. when my ex am I mutually split, it took a month and a half before we started talking again. if you want to be friends with her give it a month or so. so she and you can adjust your lives and get used to the fact that you're not togehter anymore. then you can work on being friends. in my opinion, you shouldn't be friends because of the way things ended. this break up was a one sided thing. only one wanted this. if it was mutual then maybe the just friends thing would work out. if you decide to be friends you would be reminded of your relationship since it was you who didn't want to break up. and its not fair to yourself. my advice talk to a best friend I don't mean about your break up about any thing get yourself occupied with friends and activities to get your mind of the whole thing. when you find yourself thinking about it say to yourselt she doesn't deserve you. hope I helped!1