We were 10 years common law, says she lost her attraction for me. A week latter with another guy that I've know for a couple years.
Should I contact him and have a civil man to man?
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Your going to contact him and say what? leave her alone? He is a man he did what men do. He approached a woman. She is grown if she didn't want him she would ve declined it. Now I am assuming you want her back. If that's the case, let them be. If you do approach the guy, for one your going to look like an ass since they both will laugh at you, won't take you seriously. I just don't see any good coming out of this. A man to man would be necessary if he was harassing her. Now he's the boyfriend or whatever. IF YOU WERE GOOD to her, all the while she is with him, she is goiong to think of you. maybe the first two months she won't as mush because she will be enjoy the excitment of a new boyfriend. LIke is said IF YOU WERE GOOD to her after 4 to 5 moths she is going to realize what's good for her. If it's you, she will come back, if him she will stay with him( 90% chance it won't be him), if it's neither of you she will move on. But for now let them be. The more you contact her, the more you will push her into his arms. Take that from someone whose dealt with this situation0