- Both parties "suffer" the same
- The guy does
- The girl does
Most Helpful Girls
Lots of different factors come into play. The seriousness of the relationship. How invested each person was. Who broke up with who. The reason why. And then there's the notion that guys tend to suffer more long term, while girls suffer more instantaneously.
i kinda agree with the others. both suffer the same but women tend to suffer the most in the beginning. my ex of 6 years dumped me several times and i suffered a lot in the beginning but when i was done w the relationship like reallu done he suffered for quiet a bit.
Most Helpful Guys
Whoever was invested most will suffer most. The pain of a breakup is equal to how much you loved the other person and how much you put into the relationship.
Women initiate break-ups more than men so the men suffer the most especially with divorce that are mostly instigated by women. What hurts even more is women usually just jump into a new realtionship while the guy is left wondering what the hell is he going to do. This just rubs salt into the wounds.