Sometimes you just know that someone is the one for you and you can only see yourself with that person, even after being with many people and comparing. You feel like you would do anything to be with this person. Many say to move on but you know in your heart you'll never want another.
Should you fight for this person no matter how crazy or weak you might appear? What have you done in this situation? Has anyone ever succeeded in getting that person back?
I believe in soul mates and "the one" but I also believe that loving someone also is a matter of luck and being in the right place at the right time. In that case, you can fall in love with many people, but sometimes there is just that one that no matter what you're doing in your life you want them with you and know they were put on this earth to be with you. This is of course to be concluded with the fact that you've had a relationship with them and they've fallen in love with you too at some point, not a stranger!
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First of all, I disagree with the concept of 'the one.' I think this is a fantastical notion created by hollywood and the media, which sells lots of movie tickets and romantic novels, but it doesn't necessarily reflect real life. My point is, I think its kinda crazy to think that there is only 1 person in the whole world that has the qualities and things you need and want from a romantic partner and that you connect with. If you can find one person that has all the things you are looking for, you can bet that there are others out there that have the same qualities, and who are perhaps an even better fit for you. I mean, there are literally billions of people on the planet, more than you could ever meet in your entire life. If it doesn't work out with this one, on to the next, with a better understanding of what you need and want.
To answer your question, should you fight for them?
I believe you should always go for what you want in life, I think its better to try and fail(hopefully not), then never know what could have happened because you were scared to try. However, I don't think you should resort to desperate actions when you lose someone who was really special to you. Believe me, I've tried this, and it had the effect of driving the person away for good. You see, this is what happens when you put pressure on a situation that is already uncomfortable for the both of you. Pressure is a killer. If you really want someone special back, you need to let them be for at least 3 weeks, no contact, and then try to reconcile. Make no effort to talk about the break up or the relationship, but be the happy, confident person your ex originally fell for. Its a normal human reaction to become desperate and try to get back what was lost, but this usually doesn't work when you are trying to get someone to re-think their decision to end it. In fact, becoming desperate and clingy just re-enforces the other person's decision to leave you/break up, because you have lost a lot of confidence in yourself, and that's just not attractive.
Hope this made some sense,