I guess im just confused because for all 4 years of relationship , even prior to us breaking up was us talking about marriage and our future. I feel like he either met someone new or someone (maybe a family member) put something in his head. I just can't fathom how a guy who has been with you for four years thinks a break up over the phone is the best thing and ghosting me for 2 months prior with barely a text a day is appropriate.
i've heard from people that he has gone around telling them that we broke up over the phone because i refused to see him and he had no choice, however that was a lie because i would text him everyday begging to see him and talk to him and he refused
I am trying to give myself closure now but I can't fathom how the man i loved and knew for four years just flipped a switch in a matter of days after seeing him. he told his best friend he regreted breaking up with me over the phone the way he did but he never reached out to apologize or give me the closure that I need
Most Helpful Guy
He sounds like a bit of a coward given the rest, but I wouldn't break up in person. Too messy, to much risk of violence. Women are crazy these day, may always have been... I'm too young to say. Still, he should have been clean and quick rather than dragging it out, but he probably didn't want to hurt you. However, sometimes cold and decisive is best. That said, there are no perfect breakups and done is done. Get over it and move on. There are far worse ways to lose a love (found mine under her sister's baby daddy after I came home from overtime to buy her a house when I proposed). Life sucks, romance sucks, taxes sucks and it doesn't stop. Suck it up and carry on.
Most Helpful Girl
My boyfriend of two years ghosted me for a month and then I asked him what was up and he broke up with me over Snapchat. I feel your pain girl 💔