OK first off I'm 10 years older than my currently now ex again... we started dating when she was 17. After a couple months she got pregnant. During the summer she slept with a guy. She denied it for over a year until she thought I was cheating and she through it up in my face how good it was how big he was etc. when I first met her she admitted to liking the "bigger ones" (I'm avg). well since then we been together until the past couple weeks. during spring (2010) we fussed again and she broke up with me. next night she slept with another guy. again denied it. so few months pass and I was in an accident and she breaks up with me again claiming we were never together. She sleeps with two more guys over the next month one of them the same guy she cheated on me with the first time. So again month later we get back together. Admits that she slept with those 3 guys and wants to start clean. she says she slept with them because she was drinking but also I find out from her they were all "hung". so after a month her stories just don't add up so I'm like f*** it so I call the guys. they were nice said they never knew she was in relationship and all their stories match to a T. she slept with them was drinking but not drunk and she chased them for weeks after meeting them to the point they told her to quit messing with them. we are now broke up again because she says I can't forget the past and her mistakes. what I can't get over is who to believe and will she do it to me again. she promises me she learned her lesson but I'm still scared and unsure that she is still holding back the truth. I feel as if she only came back to me because it failed with the others. they all told me they didn't want relationships and told her but she slept with them anyway. these guys have no idea of one another, but yet stories match on details. my Girlfriend still says her story is true and to trust her and forget or past or she won't be with me which is why were are broke up now. input plz!
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First I am very sorry that happened to you. Second I think you need to stay broken up with her. If all there stories match then they are telling the truth, and her past history more then says she will do it again. Did she tell you before she learned her lesson or she will change if so then it's just her way of getting you back. A cheater usually won't learn there lesson with the one they cheated with it will probably take her getting cheated on by someone else before she stops. The big thing too is that there is no way to actually forget the past and the thought of "is she cheating on me again or will she do it again" will always be there in the back of you;r mind. You deserve better then that please don't go back to her you gave her enough chances to show you she could change and she didn't change for you a bit.
good luck and again I am so sorry.0