Most Helpful Girl
Yes, you can love someone and cheat on them.
No, you can't be fully committed to someone and cheat on them.
When your husband cheated on you, he was not committed to you and your marriage. He might be committed now, but it is what allowed him to cheat.
I don't see p-rn as a type of cheating. Sorry, I'm not on board on that one. But definitely the co-worker was cheating.
Does your marriage have a chance to survive? Only if YOU go into therapy. It's not just his problem, but yours. You wont' be able to rebuild a happy marriage until you let go of the resentment hurt and then forgive him. A long road, but it's necessary for your well being.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE