Most Helpful Guy
You’re a f*cked up girlfriend!!! I know what he did was wrong but he’ll if someone girl I had the hots for did that to me I might be tempted as well. He deserves someone better than you. He’s a male, that’s like dangling a steak in front of a dog and not expecting him to eat it. No I don’t think it’s cheating, it’s wrong but not cheating.1
Most Helpful Girl
You're wrong for doing it in the first place, it's obvious after 6 years together you still don't trust him.
You set him up to fail, yes he should never have continued the conversation, but you are just as guilty as him. He was naive enough to go along with it being some girl from wherever, he didn't ask her name or any other questions he just enjoyed the conversation you started.
Take a look at why you needed to do that, I would think after 6 years all that childish nonsense should be a thing of the past.3