Most Helpful Guy
First thing you have to decide on is whether you can manage a baby at this time in your life.
The second thing is to realise you are nothing in this man's eyes, nor the baby you are carrying.
You involved his wife in it, now she is going to be against you.
You're a threat to both of them. Expect nothing, not help, nor sympathy.
You are going to have to put yourself first. You, nothing and nobody else.
Sit down and think, seek help and advice from women's organisations.
Allow no one to judge you.
We are all human, we all make mistakes. But women when mistakes happen can be left like you with carrying the consequence of such a mistake.
Get real help. You'll get none here.1
Most Helpful Girl
First thing don't talk to the wife. You're a threat so you can't expect anything from her. Second, don't feel bad about child support. It's a right and it's for the child. Third, you don't need to communicate on social media, but you have to leave a way for him to communicate with you for the child support (mobile phone). Fourth, save any nasty texts and voicemails. Fifth, accept this is happening. Everyone has flaws, but in these times is when you see what someone really is. Be glad you two didn't get married. Sixth, compose yourself and let go of that past life. Seventh, think about how this all happened and reflect on it and try to focus on being a better person and raising your child.2
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