so guys and girls. I have been happy dating and playing around a bit in the past month or so. its been great.
The thing is the ex called after like 3 weeks so I agreed to meeting up. We had dinner and a walk along the beach, had a bit of contact and hugging WTF...then ended back at her place cuddling on the couch. old feelings ect!
After a while she went to bed so I did the manly thing and gave her a peck on the cheek good bye and left.
Now this is my question...
Is she doing this to get me back or is she doing this to string me along? she has had heard that I'm dating again and having fun so is this an attempt to show me she still has feelings.
I left her place a little confused, but in the back of my mind I was saying it was a nice evening, I'm still happy dating and being single. what do I do from here. continue as I was or find out what she is playing at.
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Listen to your voice from your soul, you ended with, what is she playing. The key word is playing, there is something inside you that has already identified this as playing. The next question is, do you think enough of yourself not to be played with? Before you allowed her back into the picture, you sounded more grounded, called yourself happily dating. This sounds like a sure solid place for you. When people's intentions aren't clear, then be wise. Anytime a person comes in your life, they want something from you. You just need to figure out if it is good or bad.
For example: A friend comes into your life for good communication, build you up. have fun hangin out together. But A bad person comes in your life to tear you down, emotionally, mentally, spiritually physically. It doesn't take long to figure a good friends intentions, they are always clear. I'm a woman and I know women like this girl figure she can use her body to stop you from dating and being happy as you said. See I have a problem with chicks like this. Rather than be a real woman and say, I still have feelings for you and I would like to know if you are interested in me showing you how much I care by talking often. I want to see you again, but take it slow. What's wrong with being honest. No some people think being sneaky, manipulating is the way back into someone's heart. Don't be confused my friend. Stay single and mingle. True love is always clear, until it is clear to you, let this girl go somehwere else and play. You enjoy your life. And that is a reality not a game
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