i went out with this amazing women for 4 years. Then she left me because she said she lost feelings for me. that's when this nightmare started... I was very sad and hurt. it was extremely hard for her too. about a month after, we tried to start new. it was going OK. we took are time and everything.. she left on vacation to see a friend and when she came bck she said that it was not a good idea to try to make this relationship work. again it was hard on both of us. she met someone else down there and I found out via FB about 2 months later... no problem I can understand that. sh*t happens. now its been 8 month we are not toghether and about 5 months she is with her new boyfriend. the thing is that she contacts me every 5 or 6 weeks and she gives me the impression that she still love me. saying that sometimes she regrets her decision bla bla. so since I still have feelings for her I try to see her call her and when I do she goes crazy on me saying she has a boyfriend now. and when this happens I get sad and depress again. its hard for me not to pick up the phoe when she calls...this situation occured 3 times already. what should I do...
My ex keeps contacting me and keeps giving me wrong impressions...
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Dont be available for her when she calls. She is just doing this to see if you will answer, its her way of seeing if stuff doesn't go right with the new guy to make sure she has something to fall one. Its obvious she still has feelings for you...4 years worth of feelings don't go away very easy! give her the space she wants, she kicked you out of her life...show her what its gonna be like have you out of her life. I wish you luck. Stay Strong!1
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