My ex broke up with me a month ago. she started seeing another guy. but she keeps in touch with me b text an phone calls. She called me yesterday and asked me to hang out. I went over to her place. she lied down on couch next to me and kept touching my face and hair. I still love this girl. I am positive she wanted me to kiss her. Ye she openly said she is with the other guy and likes him. WTF should I do? please help.
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I have an advice for you. I know is going to be difficult, but if you want to see what is going on, stop seeing her. Being a woman (and I think this is available for men too), I know, we realize what we lost, only when we really lose that person or thing. So, you can do this in 2 ways: you stop answer the phone when she calls (this would drive her crazy cause she knows you're there all the time), or you tell her to leave you alone, cause you respect her new relationship and you want to go on with your life (I have a hunch you are not going to tell her that :).
what you have to do, is to make distance. to put yourself on distance. is the only way you can find what she really wants and there is a big possibility for her to come back. maybe she is telling she likes this guy to see how you react. to find out if you still care about her.
is her ego in the picture.
so put that distance and you're not going to lose more than you've already lost, and in plus you'll have your answers and maybe even more in plus :)
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