what are some tricks you use to forget your ex bf/gf?
whether or not you're over them... but you'd like to move on.
do you just have to wait for them to get out of your system?
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Going out and having fun, living life, treating myself good, and not trying to blame all other guys/girls is a start. Healing takes time, but it's also up to you. Some people put their lives on hold and try to "win" their exes back. I say screw that and move on. I remember that I am a great person outside and inside, and if my ex didn't see that then screw her. I never talk to exes again and I don't be "friends" with them. I stay positive, stay busy, treat myself and connect with good people. I also remember that I was great before I got with her, so I will be great and be better after her. Positivity, good times, good people, logic, staying true to myself, and confidence in myself fuels my spirit to get over the past. People forget that it starts with self, and it ends with self. It's called self esteem for a reason.2