So I started going out with this guy I had known for a couple years. He'd had a crush on me since we first met, he admitted to that. I thought we could last longer than a couple months but apparently that wasn't the case. It was embarrassing the longest relationship I have ever had, roughly one and a half months. Anyway we broke up. Well it was more like he stopped talking to me for a month then led me on one day to beleive he still cared and then continued to avoid me (oh yeah he also gave me his REAL cell number that day and still hasn't deleted me from facebook and took until a week ago to change his relationship status to single, which I know I would have done but as far as I can tell [i don't know if I can anymore] he isn't that way). He never actually, verbally broke up with me which might be why I can't get over him. Its also because I actually cared deeply about a guy for once (I wasn't pleased and wanted to break it off at first) and I just don't know what to do. I never had any closure and I still care about him. I still wear his armband, just on my ankle where no one can see. I don't like hitting on guys because I still feel like I'm with him even though I'm not (I know creepy and stalkerish I can't stand it!) I know I need to get over him I just don't know how. Any advice?
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... what a jerk! Why would he miss out on breaking up. I love breaking up with girls I don't like anymore. The tears, the quivering lips, the "but, I love you". You should just live your life, date other guys. He might be jealous and that will be your revenge. My last girlfriend I broke up with cried and said she loved me but less than a week later she started dating some guy that had a crush on her since way back. Moral of the story is, I think she is happy now. Time will heal all wounds. Your young so stop falling in love so easily.0
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