My girlfriend of almost 5 years has fallen out of love with me because I got into a routine and a funk. She got bored with me and doesn't think that she loves me the same. We want to remain best friends and not date anyone. I just want to know if anyone has been through a breakup after a long relationship and then realized after being friends that that person really is your love. I told her that I want to change and I really do. She doesn't believe me which is understandable. So I think that this time will show her that I can change and that hopefully when I do change to the person I used to be the person she fell in love with. Then she will fall back in love with me.
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This is a rather interesting question. Yes, there are cases in which couples went through a breakup after a long relationship and got back together and got married, BUT there is absolutely NO guarantee that this will always happen, and how often this happens. Sadly, the reality is that these sorta things happen by which one wants to stay on in this relationship whilst the other one just lost the feeling and doesn't love he/she anymore. There's why break-up can be very difficult for some people at times. You can give it a go, since both of you are still together, but you gotta be psychologically and emotionally ready if this doesn't work out. Good luck and hope this helps. x0