I've been going out every weekend to clubs but no guys approach me and I'm feeling hopeless like only my ex can save me . Omg this is by far the deepest pain I've ever felt and it hurts so bad .He checked on me 2 days ago but said his not coming back so I told him to not contact me so I can move on but I'm going crazy.I don't have real friends they only look for me to go out and party. Ugh what can I do and if someone succeeded this how did you do it?
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Hey, I felt the exact same way about a month ago... but I'm starting to feel pretty positive. I also felt that no guys were approaching me (and the ones that were, were the creeps) and I thought I just want my ex back! It's true though, time does heal that... and soon you will feel content with yourself again. Remember, you coped well when your ex wasn't in your life so you can cope now!
For me, what I first did was constantly going out to clubs throughout the week, and this really didn't make me feel any better. It works for some people but not for me. I felt like I needed to learn to be me again and work on myself. I started a diary of how I felt each day, and it helped. Looking back now I think omg I can't believe I actually felt like that! Its shown my progress and makes me feel more positive. I also started working out more, and I've done lots of shopping. It's great to go out and socialise with your friends but sometimes you don't even need that. Just work on yourself, set some goals or do something you've always wanted to do and I promise you'll feel better :)
If you want to chat anymore feel free to message me. Good luck!1