My boyfriend and I had been dating for eight months. Last Saturday he broke up with me saying the stress was too much and he just didn't want a relationship anymore. Well this past Friday I went to dinner with his family, and last night we went to the movies and back to his family’s house for dinner. I broke down and we started to talk about us. He said he just needed time to think and get his priorities in line. I asked him what the chances of us being together again were and he said it rounded to 100 percent. After talking we started kissing and one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. This isn’t the first time we have had sex but we haven’t been having it lately. He is leaving for Georgia tomorrow and he said to me as I was leaving that we would talk every day and we kissed and told each other we loved each other. Did I just complicate things even more? Clearly it was not a booty call because this is the first time it has happened. I feel like he is sending me really mixed signals and I don’t know if I should just give him time and not stress the situation more or just move on
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Is he leaving for a while? If that's the case, he might be trying to break off the relationship, but doesn't know how - he might be just as upset inside as you are.
Long distance relationships rarely, rarely work out. And now since you've had sex, he's probably even more crammed into a corner because he feels obligated to stay with you.
I haven't been able to make any long distance relationship work out (I live in the middle of the f***ing Pacific Ocean though, so it makes a little bit of sense... the distance is too big).
As far as what you should do, ask him about it. Talk about it. If you feel like you need to move on, do so. Talking about your hidden feelings works out 100% of the time. Seriously.0